Barbara Friesner

Barbara Friesner

Eldercare Expert

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We Have to Talk About What?

“I have to talk with Dad about his finances? Or worse yet . . . not driving? Then I have to talk with Mom about moving out of her house? Really? And not just talk but actually get them to do what’s in their best interest? Yea – right!” Maybe you’ve tried to talk with your aging parents before – only to end up with an explosion of emotions way out of proportion to the issue at hand or complete silence or a fractured relationship resulting in your parents not talking with you for months. But what if I told you that you can get your elderly parents to willingly do what’s in their best interest. In this presentation we’ll explore why your elderly parents respond so well to some issues while other, seemingly innocuous topics cause so much emotion. Learn how to present any difficult eldercare topic, and surprisingly easy ways to persuade your parents to willingly do what’s in their best interest.

Bridging the Generations

According to the Family Caregiver Alliance, it is estimated that one out of four U.S. households is involved in caring for a loved one aged 50 or older. Providing eldercare is a huge commitment of time, money, and emotion – especially if Baby Boomers and their Victorian/Depression Era (“Vicky-D”) parents are unable to work successfully together. Based on over 25 years of personal experience, more than 10 years helping Generational Coaching clients successfully resolve their eldercare issues, and years of research, Barbara Friesner provides fun and fascinating insight into why Baby Boomers and their Vicky-D parents are generational opposites. Learn what makes the Vicky-D tick and how emotions up the ante, and learn practical tactics to create a collaborative relationship to improve communication and bridge the generations so both generations can work together to solve immediate issues and avoid communication problems before they happen – and transform the relationship into a successful collaboration.

Balancing Work and Eldercare Needs

U.S. businesses lose more than $33 billion per year due to caregiving. In fact, elder care has replaced child care as the #1 cause of absenteeism, and “presenteeism” (on-the-job distractions). Sadly, the impact on the employee is even greater. Most people don’t realize how stressed and overwhelmed they are until their job, health, and relationships are in jeopardy. The phone calls, the appointments, the chauffering, and the paperwork! It’s a delicate balance and caregivers are too often caught in the middle. Is it possible to organize eldercare so that it has a minimal effect on your life? How do you set boundaries between home and work – even if you work from home? What can you do to get help from your siblings that really helps? Is it possible to get help from your employer and create a work situation that supports your individual needs? If you are struggling with balancing work and eldercare, you can’t afford to miss this presentation, packed with valuable information and practical, useful tips that will help you minimize the impact of caregiving on your job, your health, and your life.

About Barbara Friesner

Barbara E. Friesner, author of “The Ultimate Caregiver’s Success System” and host of Age Wise Living on Voice of America Radio, is the country’s leading Generational Coach and expert on issues affecting the elderly and their families. In addition to her monthly column for the National Association of Baby Boomer Women, Friesner's articles are published in national magazines. She is a sought on commentator for news articles and on television and radio.

After caring for her mother who suffered from advanced dementia, learning first-hand how emotional and overwhelming elder care can be, Barbara started AgeWiseLiving, an organization that helps family members resolve their elder care issues by choice, not crisis.

She has been a featured speaker and panelist for many organizations including the Employee Assistance Professionals Association World Conference, the International Business Women’s Conference in Washington, DC, the Assisted Living Federation of America National Convention, the New York Bar Association Elder Law Committee, The National Council on the Aging, the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America, and the Utica College Gerontology Institute Annual Conference.

Barbara is an adjunct professor at Cornell University, where she created and taught “Seniors Housing Management” at Cornell's School of Hotel Administration. She received her Master of Business Administration from Boston University . Prior to starting AgeWiseLiving, Friesner was the Director of Education & Development for Loews Corporation and Dean of Loews University.

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